Frequently Asked Questions

What is this blog about?

This blog is a space for anyone living with chronic illness—or supporting someone who is. Here, I share stories, reflections, and practical tips about navigating life with conditions that don’t just “go away.” It’s not just about illness, though—it’s also about hope, joy, and finding ways to live fully, even on the hard days.

How can I get involved?

What topics do you cover?

How can I find support?

Who writes the blog?

I write about everything from daily challenges (like managing fatigue or brain fog) to bigger themes (like finding meaning, maintaining relationships, or adapting goals). You’ll also see posts about mental health, practical tips, and little joys that make the tough days easier.

Hi, that’s me 👋 I’m Velvet, and I live with Lupus, Sjogrens, and Rheumatoid arthritis. I started this blog because I know how lonely chronic illness can feel. Writing is my way of saying, “You’re not alone in this.”

You can join the conversation by leaving a comment, sharing your experiences, or reaching out with topic ideas. Your voice matters here. This blog feels more like a community when people open up, so please don’t hesitate to connect.

While this blog isn’t a substitute for medical or mental health advice, I share resources, coping strategies, and encouragement. You’ll also find a caring community in the comments section. If you’re looking for immediate support, I always recommend reaching out to a trusted healthcare provider or a support group (online or in your area).

Is this blog medical advice?

No—this blog is about lived experience, encouragement, and community. I always encourage you to lean on your healthcare providers for medical care.

Is it okay if I don’t have a diagnosis yet?

Absolutely. Chronic illness journeys don’t always come with clear answers, and you are welcome here no matter where you are in yours.

What if I’m having a really hard day?

Then this blog is especially for you. I want this space to feel like a soft landing place when things get heavy.

Can I share my story here?

Yes! Whether in the comments or by reaching out privately, your story matters. Sharing helps others feel less alone.

💌 Final Note

This blog exists because I believe no one should have to face chronic illness alone. Whether you’re here to read quietly, share your voice, or just take a breath, I’m so glad you’ve found this space. You belong here.